I hope this article will give you a clear understanding of ADHD, based on some of the things I have personally noticed in my own child. Like many parents, I also had several questions — “Is this normal?” “Could it be ADHD?” — and today I want to share those experiences with you.
In
the early years, I did not notice any major changes in my child. He always
picked up what we taught him very quickly, both at school and at home. In fact,
he seemed like a fast learner who grasped everything immediately.
But
over time, his teachers began to notice something different. They told us that
although he was studying well, there were moments when his attention seemed to
drift. For example, while the teacher was explaining a lesson, his eyes would
remain on the teacher, but his mind was clearly elsewhere. Only when the
teacher called his name once or twice would he bring his attention back to the
class.
At
first, the teacher didn’t take it too seriously, assuming he was just a small
child. But gradually, the distractions became more frequent. Thankfully, since
this was identified at an early stage, we were able to take quick steps to
reduce the problem and help him focus better.
When I Started Noticing
the Signs at Home
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It
wasn’t just in school — even at home I began to see little things. For example:
- When we gave him
homework, he would start writing, but after a few minutes, he would get up
to play with something else.
- If I asked him
to bring something from the next room, he would forget halfway and return
without it.
- During family
conversations, he would be present but sometimes his answers showed that
his mind was somewhere else.
At
first, I thought this was just a playful habit. But when it became regular, I
started to wonder whether it was something more.
How Teachers Helped Us
Understand
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One
of the best parts of this journey was the support from his teachers. Instead of
just scolding him for being distracted, they guided us. The teacher said:
“Your
child is very smart, but his focus shifts quickly. It’s not that he doesn’t
understand — it’s that his mind is jumping too fast.”
This
made me realize that ADHD is not about “low intelligence” but about different brain
functioning. Children with ADHD can be very talented, but they need
extra help in managing attention and restlessness.
Simple Steps That Helped
Us
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We
tried a few things at home that made a difference:
- Routine – Fixing a timetable
for study, play, and sleep.
- Break Tasks – Instead of
saying “Finish all your homework,” I would say, “First write two
questions, then take a small break.”
- Positive Praise – Every time he
completed something without distraction, I made sure to appreciate it.
- Less Screen Time – Reducing
cartoons and mobile time helped him sit with books longer.
These
small changes didn’t solve everything overnight, but they helped improve his
attention slowly.
Myths vs. Facts I Learned
as a Parent
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When
I first started noticing these signs, I had many wrong assumptions. Over time,
I realized the truth:
- ❌
Myth
1: “It’s just laziness.”
✅ Fact: ADHD is not laziness. My child wants to do things, but his focus shifts uncontrollably. - ❌
Myth
2: “Bad parenting causes ADHD.”
✅ Fact: I used to wonder if I was too soft or too strict. Later I learned ADHD is related to brain development, not parenting style. - ❌
Myth
3: “Only naughty kids have ADHD.”
✅ Fact: My child is polite and kind, but still struggles with attention. ADHD is not about behavior alone. - ❌
Myth
4: “Children will outgrow it.”
✅ Fact: Some symptoms may reduce, but ADHD can continue into teenage years and adulthood. Early support helps manage it better.
What I Learned as a
Parent
As
a parent, I realized that ADHD is not about being lazy or careless. It’s a
condition where the child’s brain is wired differently. Instead of constant
scolding, what works best is patience, guidance, and early support.
I
also learned that many children with ADHD grow up to be creative,
intelligent, and successful once they find the right way to focus their
energy.
Final Thoughts
If
you are a parent and see similar signs in your child — don’t panic. Observe
carefully, talk to teachers, and if needed, consult a doctor. The earlier you
understand your child’s needs, the better you can support them.
ADHD
does not define your child’s future. With love, patience, and the right
guidance, they can achieve wonderful things.
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